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Little Things are Big Things

Our life consists of moments. One after another, they make a thread of our life.

Each day we influence on the moments of our partner’s life.
We can either have a positive or negative impact.
We can either highlight and brighten or dim and dampen each moment.
If we are careless and not careful, our impact will turn to autopilot. We start doing things out of habit, instead of out of love. We stop going out of our way to surprise our partner.
According to the research of John Gottman, both partners in a relationship are emotionally available only 9% of the time. Can you imagine? Our autopilots will not be looking good.
If you don’t learn to be thoughtful, you end up regretting missed opportunities to demonstrate love. Thoughtlessness is a silent enemy to a loving relationship.
Stephen & Alex Kendrick, the Love Dare

What are the best moments that you remember with your spouse?
What were the unexpected, most memorable, happiest moments you two shared, little or big? What is something out of the ordinary you can do for your partner? How can you add a positive moment to their life?

Ksenia Demidova

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